Golden relationship advice: Request exactly what you want and need, and not what you think someone ELSE wants or needs.
Sounds simple enough, right?
But countless women across America and beyond frequently settle for relationships, or rather “arrangements” with men that offer little to none of what they want or need.
They do it mostly because they think that is what the guy will want, or that it is all they are worthy of.
What Exactly Are You Afraid Of?
When you settle for an unfulfilling relationship and don’t demand what you want and need from a guy, what are you afraid of?
That he will not want the same thing? If he doesn’t you’re just not dealing with the right guy. “Toss the rock” over your shoulder and keep yourself open to other options.
We women have a bad tendency to settle on one guy too soon and too easily. You may be surprised at the results when you pull away and keep meeting people instead of settling for someone who can’t give you what you want and need.
Are you living your life in fear of being alone to the point where you would accept any treatment or excuse for a relationship?
Please stop doing that. It only matters if you’re BOTH happy.
You deserve better.
Lynn Gilliard is the author of the relationship guide Let Him Chase YOU (available soon) and the eBook Friends With Benefits SUCKS (At Least for Women). She is an in-demand writer and transformational blogger helping people get in touch with their inner greatness.