When You Want Something More… But He Doesn’t
A lesson inspired by the anonymous woman who accused Aziz Ansari of “sexual misconduct.” I’ve been in the room with a famous …
Signs that You Are in a Friends with Benefits (FWB) Relationship
Tips to determine if you’re in a friends with benefits situation. Friends with benefits relationships can be complicated. Sometimes women find themselves …
Be All That YOU Can Be – Not What You Think a Man Wants You to Be
When I browse social media sites and come across young women in social settings, I often notice that it seems as if …
New Book: Survive Live or Thrive? by L. Lynn Gilliard
New Book: Survive, Live or Thrive? by L. Lynn Gilliard This is a guide for those who feel that they may be …
When He Says… Can I Have Your Number?
When he says: So can I have your number? You say: No, I don’t think that would be a good idea. If …
When He Says… I Need a Woman to Support Me…
A series of off the cuff responses that you can keep handy when a “rock” (a guy who has the potential to …
“Lucky to be Here”… Is This Your Mentality When Dating Men? (VH1 Couples Therapy)
I caught a bit of an episode of Couples Therapy on VH1 and the therapist made a comment that I think a …
When He Suddenly Calls Out of the Blue, What Should I Do?
In my book Let Him Chase You I talk about ghosting, which is basically when a man suddenly stops contacting you for …
If You Really Want to Be Married, You Can Be, But…
I’ve touched on this point in the past, but I wanted to expand on it. I watched a new show last night …
Promoting HIM But Not Your Own Dreams and Goals
Oftentimes I see women and girls on Twitter promoting a new male artist, friend or associate. It’s to the point where they …